What is a hotwife? A hotwife can mean many different things to many different couples and individuals but the premise remains roughly the same. A hotwife is usually a married lady – hence the “wife” part that indulges in extra marital activities.
A married woman who is allowed and/or encouraged by her husband to pursue sexual relationships with other individuals. Often, these relationships are in pursuit of fulfilling the husband’s/couple’s fantasies.
These rules and roles can vary significantly between couples and there are often boundaries in-place to insure everyone is safe and nobody is hurt. My wife and I have been an active member of the hotwife community for a while now and there are a lot different types of hotwife we have come across. Below are a some examples of the types of hotwife you can expect:
- Online only – This can include only chatting, explicit photo and video sharing. Nothing in person and only online.
- Teasing when out – A couple that enjoys going out and the husband enjoys to see his hotwife teasing and flirting and/or chatting-up other men when out.
- Only dating – Not necessarily sexual, but often includes date nights with other men and bulls in hotels. The couple enjoy teasing and messaging other men for dates. This is the middle ground for most hotwife couples and there are variations within this to suit needs and fantasies. e.g. interracial and bbc, cuck and dom. etc.
- Encouraged extra marital hotwife – An open couple that may have a regular bull or partner that they have formed a relationship with. The husband may enjoy watching and or get involved sexually.
- Freely shared hotwife – Similar to a swingers couple. An open understanding that the hotwife will actively pursue and engage in extra marital activity with full consent of the husband.
- Hotwife with cuck husband – An arrangement where the husband assumes a submissive role in the marriage and the hotwife actively pursues extra marital activity. This relationship can vary greatly between couples and can include themes like humiliation of the husband.
There are and will be many other variations of the hotwife relationship. Please feel free to share below in the comments. I’d love to hear some additions to the list and what other types of relationships you guys are in or actively pursue.